Tuesday, September 29, 2009

This Land Is My Land...

September, for me, is a roller coaster of emotions; from the happiness of becoming a wife, the joyful memories of becoming a mother, to the heartbreak of losing a parent.

One more memorable event is held in the arms of September, and it came about in 1958 when a young husband, wife, their daughter and a pet parakeet set sail for the journey of their lifetime. Yes, you read it right, a parakeet! Saying goodbye to grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, teachers, school chums and your home is no easy task and I can only imagine how difficult it was for my parents, after all they were the adults. Boarding an ocean liner in Southampton, England…destination New York, America is something you never forget. (Cue Neil Diamond.)

Being just a youngster at the time, I never gave much thought to how much guts courage it took on my parent’s part, to basically and blindly face the unknown in a strange land. We had a sponsor family as that was required to immigrate, and I know my father spent hour upon hour completing paperwork, followed by trips to London and a meeting with the powers that determined if the Queen wanted to let you go American Consulate.

Four days into our Atlantic crossing, rumors circulated that our arrival would be delayed due to a hurricane that was causing problems in the shipping lanes. I was eleven years old, we didn’t have hurricanes in England, I was clueless, but not for long! Hurricane Helene, the strongest hurricane of the 1958 season, and our ship made contact somewhere in the middle of the ocean. Windows were broken, dishes were smashed, and bones were broken. My Mother, who hated water and ships to begin with, was terrified, I know how hard she tried to hide it but I can still remember the look on her face as the ship pitched and rolled through the stormy sea.

On the 30th of September, 1958, four days late, the SS Arosa Sky limped past the Statue of Liberty and slid into its berth in New York Harbor. We had arrived!

Fifty one years have passed since that young girl from England stood in awe of buildings that touched the sky and cars the size of buses. Well, at eleven they seemed that big! I have never returned to my homeland, I keep thinking I will visit someday but with each passing year, it seems less likely. I consider myself to be more of an American (a citizen for nearly 40 years) than a Brit but somewhere deep inside; my heart hums God Save the Queen now and then.

My parents were so proud to call the United States their home. I only wish they were still here to celebrate another anniversary.

19 comments:

Alan Burnett said...

What a wonderful story. You seem to have settled well in your "new" home

Mara said...

Okay, you have made up my mind now: I will never ever ever take a boat to cross that ocean! I would be Titanic terrified. I totally understand your mother!

Lois said...

What wonderful memories! You're parents were very brave and somewhat adventurous too.

DJan said...

I too have lost much during the fall, but I can rejoice in your story, and be happy that you are living here in the United States with us as a citizen and a productive one at that. Missing my parents for many years now, but they are still with me, as yours are with you. Thanks for the inspiring story and the memories...

Rae said...

That is a wonderful story. It truly was an amazing voyage filled with uncertainty, but a lot of courage. Thanks for sharing your memories.

George said...

What a wonderful story. My late wife also came over to the U. S. as a young girl and she had a similar story (but without the hurricane). She came from eastern Europe, landed in New York on Christmas Eve, and was amazed by all the lights.

Sylvia K said...

Oh, yes! A wonderful story! I can only imagine the terror of the hurricane and how great it must have been to set foot on solid ground again! And to see New York for the first time! I was grown the first time I saw it, but I was just as awed! It didn't take long for a native to sidle up and offer to show the me the city. Fortunately, I already had plans, but he followed me down the street for a several blocks! Hadn't thought about that in a long time!

Have a great day!

Sylvia

Betsy from Tennessee said...

I love your story, Sunny... I do hope you get to go back 'home' someday--but as you said, 'home' is here now...

Thanksgiving is a hard time for me because I lost both my Mom and one of my brothers during that usually joyous season. But--like you, I have many other joyful events to celebrate throughout the year.

Hugs,
Betsy

Carol said...

What a memory! Must have been frightening for a young girl of eleven. That would have prevented me from ever going on a cruise ship. I have never been through a hurricane at sea, but I have on land., and it was scary as a child. I can't imagine at sea.

Dory and the Mama said...

What a wonderful post full of memories and tributes!

Wanda said...

That would be a fear I could not face...crossing the ocean...by boat or plane...Your experience at 11 with the hurricane on a boat does not seem to have left you traumatised...it might have me...being afraid of deep water.
Do you have an English accent at all I wonder...enjoyed your post Sunny!

Karen said...

Wow, that was some story.
It would be so nice if you could travel back to England some time.

AL said...

Very sweet story Ms Sunny, I would like to thank you for visiting my blog and that you enjoyed it.

Im AL

Robert V. Sobczak said...

My wife has the same feelings about Florida ... she's from Belgium and just became a citizen this year.

diane said...

I love reading your stories. they are short and captivating. They are very interesting memories and your experiences wre similar to mine except we migrated to Australia and I feel more Australian than british. I was 4 years younger than you when i arrived. I found my mothers diary of the voyage and told the story on my blog. If you are interested you can get to it from my side bar under "Migrating to Australia in 1949".

kavita said...

An incredible story..you have come a long way,i understand you when you say that your heart still hums God save the queen...when we are true to our roots ,we are true to everything else around us.Loved your story and i am glad that you shared it with us.

Vogon Poet said...

Beautiful story, said in few and funny words...

Gail said...

What a wonderful tale.

I, too, came from England, Germany and Ireland a few generations back. My great Grandmother(English) was so orney as a five year old, the sailors threatened to throw her over board.

Welcome home.

Gail said...

Wonderful story!

I, too, come from English, German and Irish immigrants and am very proud of it.

My great grandmother was so orney on the boat trip from England that the sailors threatened to throw her over board. She was only five.

Welcome.